The act of dressing up as imagined characters shouldn't cause drama
It just sounds so wrong. No matter how obsessed we become, no matter what great lengths you go to get a shot or whatever you expose-- Remember you're in this with OTHER people. And RESPECT should come a long long way. (But then again, don't go expecting to be respected if your actions don't warrant it)
We all have different opinions, that's what makes life awesome. What matters most is how open we are to the thoughts of other people. We don't need to agree with them, no one does. We just have to let everyone have a voice. We don't necessarily have to change our ways for them.